The
Resolution Process
2/13/03
Resolving
alleged violations of conduct are tests of our organization’s ability to embody and
practice the teachings of the Ascended Masters as well as the principle of fairness, balance,
judiciousness and adherence to truth. The process our organization adheres to is intended to
insure fairness and to foster dignity, self-discipline and personal growth.
This paper serves to
clarify how we as an organization, as well as individual members, may work together to resolve
allegations of conduct violations in the most appropriate and balanced
manner.
Ultimately, our
goal is to have as many issues as possible resolved at the local level. However,
we still need to develop the blueprint for what issues should come to our international offices
for
resolution and what issues can be resolved locally. For the later, we also need to develop and
provide training for members to handle those issues. In the meantime, we hope this summary
of our resolution process and the general procedure for resolution at any level will be useful to
you.
Local Resolution
Process
We
recommend two steps, based on the teachings of Jesus Christ (Mathew 18:15-17), which
our Messenger also advocated. Individuals may take these steps privately when they observe
behavior by a keeper of the flame, communicant or leader that appears to be not in keeping
with
the standards of their office.
1) Personal Dialogue between Two Members:
If a person becomes aware of seemingly
inappropriate behavior and feels competent to approach the alleged offender, it should be done
with love and the intent to learn and help. This action is based on Jesus’ counsel to
take up the
matter just between the two of you (Matthew 18:15). When members can talk honestly
about
perceived infractions, this opens the door to
true fellowship. Often there can be misperceptions,
and if no communication follows, there is no opportunity for the other party to respond, clarify
or
even address an allegation of inappropriate behavior. Anyone making an allegation is expected
to communicate his perceptions in an objective and helpful manner without blaming or
shaming.
Statements should be made from the heart, with active listening, and the alleged offender
should be treated with respect and loving-kindness.
2) Involvement of One or Two Others: Jesus teaches us that
when a situation cannot be
resolved privately, the next step is to take one or two others along (Matthew 18:16). Others
could include local Church members, board members or a minister. The purpose of introducing
other participants is not to substantiate viewpoints or to persuade others; rather it is to gain
understanding and bring more objectivity and spiritual insights. These other participants are
encouraged to listen patiently and impartially to both parties and to follow the principles listed
in
step one. Step two may involve more than one meeting. If the matter cannot be resolved by
following steps one and two, then follow Jesus’ counsel to “tell it unto the
church” (Matthew
18:17).
Resolution Process at
Headquarters
Alleged
infractions that are not resolved locally may be referred to the appropriate department
at headquarters for resolution, depending on the person’s area of affiliation (see chart
below).
In the absence
of the Messenger, alleged infractions of communicants are referred to the Board
of Directors (the spiritual governing body of the organization), who has given the Ministerial
Council the charge of dealing with communicants. Alleged infractions by Keepers of the
Flame
are referred to the Board of Directors. Alleged infractions of local teaching center or study
group trustees are referred to the Ministry and Keepers of the Flame Fraternity managers for
resolution, while alleged infractions by a minister are referred to the Ministerial
Council.
Area of Affiliation
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Res. Process Administered by:
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Communicants
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Board of Directors referred to the Ministerial Council
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TC or Study Group Trustee
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Ministry and Fraternity
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Minister
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Ministerial Council
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Keepers of the Flame
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Board of Directors
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The resolution
process that is applied by the Board of Directors, Ministerial Council, Ministry
and Keepers of the Flame Fraternity managers adheres to these steps:
1. Receipt of Allegation: Allegations regarding an
individual’s conduct are received and
reviewed. To reinforce accountability, only signed allegations are accepted for review.
2. Notice of an Alleged Infraction: The individual
in question is informed of the alleged
infraction and of their opportunity to be heard.
3. Counseling for the Parties Involved: A minister
from headquarters or a regional or
local minister may provide counseling to the parties involved.
4. Fact-Finding: The Board of Directors, Ministry and Keepers
of the Flame Fraternity
managers or the Ministerial Council review allegations and gather and evaluate
necessary clarifying information related to all sides of the issue.
a. They may get input
from the minister, local teaching center or study group
leadership as well as from Keepers of the Flame and/or communicants involved
in the situation.
b. The individual in
question is invited to meet in person or by phone to present
their perspective. The individual may choose to have present an advocate who
is a member of the organization in good standing. The individual may also
choose to respond to allegations in writing.
5. A Prompt and Impartial Review and Decision: The Board of
Directors, Ministry and
Keepers of the Flame managers or the Ministerial Council arrive at decisions
unanimously. Their process includes careful study and evaluation of all the information
and the applicable vows to each area of affiliation as well as a review of any appropriate
spiritual teachings of the Ascended Masters or the Messengers, and prayer.
6. Positive Intervention, Discipline and/or Sanctions: Alleged
infractions may be
resolved by dismissal of the allegations, positive intervention, discipline and/or
sanctions. Positive intervention or discipline may include counseling, private reprimand,
and restitution or amends for damages done. If resolution is reached, both parties will
sign a document stating what the outcome is, by what date any relevant action will be
accomplished, and that they both agree with the decision. Sanctions for more serious
and repeated infractions may include public disclosure, if needed, and suspension or
dismissal from membership in the Church or the Keepers of the Flame Fraternity. These
decisions are arrived at after careful and prayerful consideration.
7. Confidentiality: The process is administered with every
attempt for confidentiality to
the parties involved, unless the result is public disclosure or the organization is
compelled to respond to the public allegations made by an individual who has been
disciplined.
Standard of Conduct
Violations That Could be Reviewed through This Process
· Serious violation of standards of conduct for Elders, Church board
members, ministers,
teaching center and study group leaders and board members, communicants of the
Church and Keepers of the Flame. Such standards are defined in signed covenants
when these individuals take office or become a communicant or keeper of the flame.
· Disruption of the fellowship—an offense in conduct and practice that
seriously disturbs
the peace, purity and/or unity of the Church.
· Practicing homosexuality, lesbianism or bisexuality.
· Association with discarnate spirits—psychic channeling, automatic
writing, taking
dictations, spiritualism, et al. (Spiritualism is defined as “the belief that the
dead survive
as spirits which can communicate with the living, especially with the help of a third
party.”)
· Practicing the black arts—Satanism, witchcraft or black magic.
· Violations of criminal laws are handled by the judicial system and
addressed by the
above process only after having gone through applicable legal proceedings. These
violations may be actions such as those that threaten the well-being of the family,
including but not limited to polygamy, incest, child pornography, child sexual abuse and
substance abuse, including the use of illegal drugs.
Matters Not Covered by
the Resolution Process
· Personal disputes and conflicts between or among
members
· Financial or business disputes between or among
members
· Personal life choices by members other than those included in behavioral
standards and
signed covenants
Summary Statement
While our organization
and members engage in the resolution process, each hold in their heart
and mind the thoughtform “I AM my brother’s keeper.” The resolution
process is aimed at
edifying the soul, establishing loving boundaries and helping individuals come into oneness
with
their Holy Christ Self. In administering this process, we strive to embody the highest
principles
of fairness and balance. Through cooperation and training of local community members and
centers, it is our goal in the future to resolve nearly all allegations of misconduct locally, where
individuals can assume more responsibility and ownership over the process and the results.
When necessary and when infractions are serious and/or repeated, headquarters will receive
notices of alleged behavioral misconduct and will apply and continue to apply the resolution
process as outlined in this paper.