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GAY
CHRISTIAN
ONLINE INDEX
(Home)
CONTACT ME
(How To E-Mail Me; Feel Free to Write to Me If You Need
Advice, or Have a Question.)
SUPPORT THIS
WEBSITE
(How To Financially Help and Support This Website, and
Donate Online)
WELCOME
(Website Background - What It Is Not; Its Beginnings,
and History, etc.)
INTRODUCTION
(Website Purpose - What It Is; How It Can Help,
etc.)
WEBSITE
EXCERPTS
(Overview of the Website - A Brief Description of Each
Website Article With Excerpts)
A PAGE FOR
STRAIGHT
PEOPLE
(How to Understand Gays and Lesbians, and Gay
Christians; Stereotypes and Misunderstandings; Just What Is a Gay
Christian; Silly False Fears; Our Common Goals and Bonds,
etc.)
MY AUTO-
BIOGRAPHY
(How The Website Originally Began - My Life Story:
My Youth; Years of Marriage and Religious Service; My Name Change;
Coming Out; My Current Life; Monthly Life Updates, and "What
Is the Deal With All the Pinocchio Stuff" Finally Explained,
etc.)
HOW TO BE
A GAY
CHRISTIAN
(Despite What You've Been Told Otherwise - Scripture
Study Without Debate: The Compatability of Sexuality with Christian
Ethics and the Christian Lifestyle; the Law of Christ, the Law of
Love, etc.)
TRUE VERSES
FALSE
CHRISTIANITY
(True Spirituality - Religion Verses Relationship,
Grace Verses Law, Absolutism and Perfectionism Verses Normalness,
etc.)
GOOD NEWS
(SCRIPTURES FOR THE GAY
CHRISTIAN)
(Helpful Scriptures For Life Arranged By the Fruit of
the Holy Spirit: Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Gentleness,
Goodness, Faith, Meekness, Self-Control, etc.)
HOW TO BE GAY!
GAY CHRISTIAN
SELF-ESTEEM
(Build Healthy Gay and Lesbian Self-Esteem and Adult
Development - The Need for a Firm Life Foundation in Jesus Christ;
Sources and Effects of Dysfunction; False Guilt And Shame;
Stereotypes and Misinformation About Homosexuality; False Coping
Skills; Destructive and Dysfunctional Behaviors; Sexual
Compulsions; Positive Self Development; Positive Relationship
Development; Coming Out; Beyond Coming Out; Creating Healthy
Choices and Behaviors; Inner-Healing; Self-Love; Self-Image;
Self-Actualization; Following Christ; Christian Principles For
Life, etc.)
OPEN LETTERS
(Common Letters and My Replies, Among the Many Are:
Is Being Gay Wrong?; Why Sodom Was Really Destroyed; The Role of
Women, Cultural Stereotypes; Gay Stereotypes; Should I Come Out?;
My Spouse Is Gay; Sex Outside of a Relationship; I'm a Battered
Spouse; After a Relationship Ends; What If My Church Finds Out I Am
Gay?; Does God Accept or Reject Me?; What About Pornography?;
My Parent Is Gay; I Need Help Finding a Church; Is Masturbation
OK?; The Role of Reproduction; I'm Gay and Married; Should I
Leave My Church?; How to Understand Scriptures; Is Change
Possible?; What Does Being Gay Mean?, etc.)
Pinocchio,
The Blue Fairy
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For the curious...
 irst, Gay Christian Online is not designed as a forum or
place to debate the issue of Christianity and Homosexuality. If you are
scholarly or personally looking for this, you will not find it here. I
leave that to those who are so called; my calling is to minister Christ to
gays, lesbians, and those who love them.
For those who object...
 econd, if you think being
gay is wrong, you may be surprised at what you find here. I encourage you
to take the time to read fully what is written, without pre-conceived
assumptions about things believed or discussed herein. I do not condone
sin, avoid nor explain away Scriptures, or any other false statements or
stereotypes. The purpose of this website is to minister to gays and
lesbians. If you are not gay, not struggling with your sexuality and
spirituality, not trying to support someone who is, then... thanks for
visiting, but I need to devote my time and energies to those for whom I am
called. So, as you move on elsewhere, may Jesus touch
you with God's Love.
For those who seek...
 hird, if you are gay,
struggling with your spirituality, sexuality, or life in general, or you
sincerely desire to understand and assist those who are, then... "Welcome
Home." It is my sincere prayer you find Love, hope, and peace through this
ministry.
 ow, This website is big!
Yes, it has numerous articles on many different topics, with over one
hundred pages full of information and assistance. It is worth the time and
effort to read them completely to fully understand and apply to your life.
You can even download them and read them offline. Also, you always have a
personal touch... contact with me. Feel free to write me, anytime, too.
 ay
Christian Online is designed to provide you Love, acceptance,
support; uplifting positive information, encouragement and affirmation for
you, gays and lesbians who seek Jesus Christ, who desire spiritual
guidance, growth, and maturity through Jesus Christ.
urther, it is designed to
provide you, the Gay Christian, with Love, wisdom and counseling,
encouragement and insight, support, and practical experiences on how to
live the Christian life.
 astly, it is also here for
you who are trying to love and support such persons.
Peace and Hugs, Ben
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LIVING THE GAY CHRISTIAN
LIFE
(Articles on - Salvation; Baptisms;
Sanctification; True Holiness; The Law of Christ, the Law of Love;
Sin; Forgiveness; Communion; Sacraments; Prayer;
Fasting; How to Study Scripture; Giving; Witnessing;
Serving; Christian Ethics; Making Friends; Healthy and Positive
Relationships; Christian Sexual Ethics, etc.)
GAY CHRISTIAN
RELATIONSHIPS
(Developing Healthy Relationships - What if You are
Gay And Married; Making Friends; Dating; Finding Good, Positive,
and Healthy Relationships; Guidelines for Choosing a Church; How to
Recognize a Good Church; Being Gay in the Christian World; Being
Christian in the Gay World, Defining the Gay and Christian Worlds;
Defining Yourself, etc.)
GAY CHRISTIAN ATHLETICS
(How to Pass Gym Class - Proper Diet, Nutrition,
Protein, Carbohydrates, Fat, and Fluids; Supplements; Sleep; Sex;
Body Care - Bathing, Hair, Shaving, Teeth, Hands, Feet, Nails,
Piercings, Tatoos, etc.; Clothes - Fashion Styles, Underwear, Shoes,
Swimwear, Shirts, Pants, Skirts, Hats, etc.; Choosing and Using a
Gym; the Locker Room; Gym Nudity; Proper Use of Gym Equipment;
Warm Up Tips; Descriptions of Individual Exercises for All Muscle
Groups; Personalized Exercise Plans, etc.)
REFERENCED AND RECOMMENDED
BOOKS
(Books on - Being Gay and Married; Coming
Out; Straight Parents and Families of Gays; Gay Dating and
Relationships; Gay Parenting; Gays and Christianity; Gay Youth;
Children; Gay Medical, Health, and Sex; Gay Legal, Social, and
Psychological Issues; the Lighter Side to Being Gay; Other Gay
Topics; Recommended Christian, Fiction, and Other Style Books,
etc.)
OTHER INTERNET LINKS
(Links to - Gay Accepting Churches, Denominations,
Religious Support Groups, etc.; Gay Christian Resources; Coming Out
Resources; Gay Educational and Library Resources; Information and
Truth on Ex-Gay Ministries; Fun and Interesting Resources;
HIV/AIDS; Medical, Sex, and Health Issues; Gay Literature and
Poetry; Gay Magazines and News; Gay Organizations; Gay
Relationship Resources; Gay Parenting Resources; Gay Youth
Resources; Search Engines, etc.)
MY MUSIC
(Music Composed and Published by Me - Classical,
Celtic. Samples May Be Found on Various Pages, too)
MY POETRY
(I May Not Be the Best Poet, But I Try; and, Yes, Most of
These Are Romantic)
MY PICTURES
(Formal, Kilt, and Casual Pictures of Me)
MY PICTURES
(Cowboy, and Casual Pictures of My Family and I)
WEBSITE PICTURES
(Collection of The Best - Classical Art and Black and
White Photography)
SURVEY FORM
(Your Chance to Share - Tell Me About Yourself, Write to
Me)
CONNECT WITH GAY
CHRISTIANS
(Leave Contact Information to
Connect With Other Gay and Lesbian Christians)
THANK YOU
(My Thanks
For
You, and Visiting My Website)
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2004-1997. All Rights Reserved. BBCB. USA.
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